The history
of Valentine's greetings, songs and verses, goes back to medieval times. One of
the earliest written Valentine's greetings (that we know of) was sent in 1415
from Charles, the Duke of Orleans, to his wife, while he was imprisoned in the
Tower of London.
Some 18th
century Valentine’s traditions included:
Drawing Lots
In 1725, clergyman
Henry Bourne explained the tradition of drawing lots to find your valentine. On
the eve of St Valentine's Day, an equal number of maidens and bachelors would get
together (sometimes in the local churchyard). They would each write their name
on a separate billet. Sometimes they would use an alias in order to remain
anonymous. The billets would then be rolled up and lots would be drawn, ‘the
maids taking the men’s billets, and the men the maids’. Having thus allowed fate
to decide on their partners, tradition dictated that the suitors should wear
their mistresses billets ‘several days upon their
bosoms or sleeves’ and lavish them with tokens of affection.
Gloves
Towards the
end of the Elizabethan era, gloves became a traditional Valentine’s Day gift
for women. It became customary for a young woman to approach the man of her choice
and say, “Good-morrow Valentine, I go today; To wear for you, what you must
pay; A pair of gloves next Easter Day,”. The man, if he returned the maiden’s
regard, would then send her a gift of gloves to wear on Easter Sunday.
Sometimes a man would show his love by sending gloves without any encouragement.
If the lady wore his gloves on Easter Sunday, it was a sign that she returned
his feelings.
There is
also a superstition that, if you find a glove on Valentine’s Day, your true
love will have its partner.
Leaves
If you catch
a falling leaf on Valentine’s Day, your love life will be blessed with a whole
year of happiness.
In England
in the 1700s, a young English woman might pin five bay leaves to her pillow on
the eve of Valentine’s Day. Other accounts state that two bay leaves, placed in
a cross on the pillow would do the trick. By doing so she would see her future
husband in her dreams.
To improve
her chances further of dreaming of her valentine, she could wear her nightgown
inside out and, once in bed, say softly
to herself, ‘Good Valentine, be kind to me, In dreams let me my true love see’.
Written tokens and cards
Although written valentines and verses were given earlier, these became more popular in the late 18th Century. In 1797 ‘The Young Man’s Valentine Writer’ was published, which suggested verses for young men to send to their sweethearts.
Although written valentines and verses were given earlier, these became more popular in the late 18th Century. In 1797 ‘The Young Man’s Valentine Writer’ was published, which suggested verses for young men to send to their sweethearts.
As postal
services became cheaper and more reliable, Valentines were sent by post and
could, of course, be kept anonymous. A great deal of thought went into these
tokens which were embellished with fabric and lace, ribbons and paper flowers
and included a heart-felt verse.
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